Lower Your Expectations…

I recently asked a good friend of mine, who is a priest, how he deals with people around him that do not always respect his vocation. His answer was simple, “I have just learned to lower my expectations”. Wouldn’t this sort of acceptance save us a lot of grief from time to time? Now understand, there is a difference between …

Look for Surprises…

Holidays are so good at bringing out the worst in people… that’s right I said it.  It is a strange twist that a time that should be most centered on family, community, faith and hope, suddenly becomes a period of stress and aggravation in our lives.  We are so consumed with what we have to do or what others are …

Ready the Way

Not only is Advent a time of preparation to the people we long to become, but it is also a time to search and find the person inside that we have lost along the way. Throughout our journey, no matter how young or old, each one of us changes from someone that we once enjoyed being into a “seasoned human” …

Why?…

Senseless tragedy looms everywhere around us, but we only seem to notice it when it hits close to home.  On Monday of this week, a gunmen (student) sat in his high school, amongst his classmates, awaiting a bus transfer and in an instant changed a community forever when he opened fire shooting 5 kids, killing 3 of them; My family …

Hey Daddy…

One of my most “favoritest” things in the world to hear is when my kids just stop me for no reason at all, or right before bed time and say, “Hey Daddy, You’re the BEST daddy and I love you.”  No matter what is going on, it always just fills me instantly with hope and a pride that they recognize …

How Music Can Enhance Our Prayer Experience

Not everyone connects with God in the same way. Whether we are seeking a new relationship, or looking to go deeper in faith, it’s important to try to open up through a prayer form we relate to best. For me, it’s music, but other people might find it in silence, reading Scripture, journaling, and together in community at Mass. While …

I Love My Wrinkles

There I was, at the gym, getting ready to do another set of exercises, when I noticed a glaring addition to my face. In that moment of rest, I sat on the edge of the bench, staring into the wall-sized mirror in front of me. I squinted and took deep breaths before continuing on, and noticed the multiple wrinkles which …

Godly Friendships

Friendships have always been of great value and importance in my life. I thrive on having authentic and true friendships. Over the last few years, I have been blessed to experience a new level of friendship in my life. It all started with committing to my health and fitness with one of my lifelong friends, Kristin. Kristin and I have …

Charity Case…

While finally taking some time for myself, I recently spent a morning at the Center for Pastoral Leadership sitting in on a session about personal spirituality.  During my time in reflection, I was given the challenge to focus on the word “charity” and where I could do more for those who need more.  At first thought I felt “well what …

Taste and See…

Being sick last week reminded me of how I spent two years of my life not being able to smell or taste anything prior to my first sinus surgery.  I took for granted all the little nuances that made up the wholeness of a meal or a drink.  I also loved wine tasting (really actually the “tasting” part) and drinking it …